Growing Us: an AI couples coach for one better conversation this week

Growing Us is an AI couples coach for partners who want one better conversation this week. You talk by voice, alone or together. It reflects the pattern back and gives you one thing to try.

Can an AI coach help us have a better conversation?

Growing Us fits when you want a private voice coach you can use alone or together, including when only one of you is ready. A daily question app fits when you want a light ritual and both of you will open it. Licensed therapy fits when you want a clinician, or when there is abuse, a safety concern, or a crisis. ChatGPT fits for getting thoughts out, and it tends to agree with whoever is typing.

What does Growing Us do?

• Voice coaching: talk to the coach (Rose) by voice, with text always available. Sessions run up to 10 minutes.
• Solo or couple mode: use it alone, or talk together and get a post-session summary that separates what each of you said.
• Relationship Pulse Check: a private five-minute check-in that maps your patterns. No account needed to begin.
• 50+ conversation guides for specific moments, from appreciation to the elephant in the room.
• Memory across sessions, so the coach can pick up where you left off.

Growing Us is a coaching tool, not therapy. It does not diagnose, and it is not the right place to start if there is abuse, a safety concern, or a crisis. In those cases a licensed professional or a crisis line is.

How much does Growing Us cost?

Growing Us is free to start on Android and iPhone: two coaching sessions with no credit card, then $1 a session (as of October 2026).

Android on Google Play. iPhone in the App Store in Canada, New Zealand, Singapore, the United States and the United Kingdom.

What do relationship experts say about it?

“A wonderful and much-needed tool for building stronger, more loving relationships.”

“Doesn't just offer garden-variety advice [...] but draws on the best science.”

“Enthusiastically recommended.”

Where to go next

• Best relationship apps for couples: how they compare
• Take the free Relationship Pulse Check
• Frequently asked questions, including privacy and data deletion
• The Growing Us blog
• The Growing Us card deck

Facts on this page last checked October 2026.